Play is more than an activity; it is an attitude, a mindset,
a certain way of approaching life. Call it openness, wonder and curiosity. Full
play does not demand or compel, it invites.
How many of us have been exposed to team building games that
feel less than playful? In my experience, when groups of people are compelled
to participate in so-called “play”, it is counter-productive. This is because
the activity itself does little to invite people to open up. Rather than
piquing curiosity, it actually causes the group to shut down.
This is because play is something that can only be
experienced from the inside out. Think of it as heart work, spiritual
development.
If we bring this kind of openness to life, we discover
resources we never knew we had when we’re faced with something difficult. A
playful spirit has nothing to lose. When you have seemingly come to the end of
your rope, a playful spirit opens you up to consider options you never knew you
had before.
Because play is essentially this kind of openness, there is
no single “right” way to play. Indeed, efforts to find the “right” way
diminishes the point of play. When
presented with a “right” way to do something, playful people will inevitably
improvise. The improvisation itself serves as a way to embrace a spirit of joy
and love; it says, “I care.” It is a hopeful activity; it says, “This
difficulty will not outwit me.”
This is why PlayFull is dedicated to helping people and
groups “play from the inside out.” Our hope and prayer is that more and more
people will be able to do just that, day in, day out. Here’s to play.
A question for you to consider: Think of a sticky situation
you’re facing right now. How can you approach it playfully?
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Hi Troy, I am really enjoying this new website, and all of your thoughts about how to approach life playfully. I"ll be linking to you soon in a post on my blog.: ) Thought of you at Connect this week. My kids have never forgotten the "Rubberband Men"!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the encouragement, Sheila! Have a great week...
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